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I asked for an iPad for my birthday. I got Pandora’s Box. In the three weeks since my husband indulged me with this gift, my (almost) 5 year old daughter has fallen in love with the tablet.  The first thing she asks when she opens her eyes in the morning is “Can I pleeeeease use [...]

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Children have much to teach us about living in the moment: they are open to the pulsing beauty of the world, which adults so often rush past. But modern childhood, with its enrichment programs and computer games, affords little time for observation and reflection. Even in the summer, I find myself wrestling my kids in [...]

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My daughter, whose birthday falls in February, was the first child to have a birthday party of her classmates this year. Mind bursting with ideas, I invited her entire pre-school class and planned a party at home.  Lest you assume I’m bragging in the following paragraph, let me say this article is about my birthday [...]

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“The conscious mind writes the autobiography of our species, but the unconscious mind does most of the work.” –David Brooks Emotions are contagious. I’ve been infected by the current of anxiety that runs beneath the surface of American parenting. With children, less is sometimes more. But we live in a “More! More! More!” parenting culture. [...]

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One of the great gifts children share with adults is the ability to see simple things with fresh wonder. The space to slow down, step back and NOTICE precedes revolutionary thinking. Though children practice intense observation naturally, parents often rush them past the proverbial “flowers.”   For example, while I am frying up grilled cheese, cleaning [...]

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For days, I’ve been hankering to respond to last week’s article in The New York Times about the movement to get kids playing again (“Effort to Restore Children’s Play Gains Momentum,” 1/6, http://www.nytimes.com/2011/01/06/garden/06play.html?pagewanted=2 ). Despite a frenzy of pre-school applications, I’ve finally grabbed a moment…. The huge body of research out there on how play [...]

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